
The phrase "skin in the game" has commonly been attributed to Warren Buffet, referring to his own investment in his initial fund. But Buffet has denied this reflecting that he simply popularised the phrase.
It is said that the origin of the phrase “to have skin in the game” comes from horse racing and describes the situation where the owner of a horse competing in a race is said to have “skin” in “the game”, meaning that the owner has a lot riding on the outcome of the event.

More recently the phrase has been popularised by former trader and now popular writer Nassim Taleb, who in his latest book Skin In The Game describes it as:
"...an assessment of asymmetries in human interactions, aimed at helping you understand where and how gaps in uncertainty, risk, knowledge, and fairness emerge, and how to close them."
As with all his books, Taleb has a lot to say, says a lot about it and then takes a long time to say it... but in essence it all boils down to this:
Only
take advice from people who are already invested in the situation they
are advising you about, and where they have something to lose if you
fail as a result of following their advice.
Asymmetries & Disconnects
Taleb also counsels us to pay careful attention to the asymmetries and the disconnects:
Taleb is known for his aphorisms and here are a few on this subject:
[3] Until you have clear and repeated evidence, and thus a good understanding, of someone's circle of competence watch the other guy's actions, pay close attention to the detail, specifically:
[4] You
really cannot truly know someone’s strengths and weaknesses until you
have been in action with them for an extended period of time.
[5] In a competitive world of "smoke and mirrors" always watch the other guy's feet to see his true intentions.
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